Surrey Family Mediation helps separating and separated families reach agreements about children and finances so that they don’t have to go to the Family Court.
Family mediation is cheaper, quicker and less stressful than litigation or court proceedings.
A mediated separation or divorce agreement is more likely to be followed than a court order. It can restore peace and help achieve post-separation harmony.
We can help you with:
· Child-inclusive mediation
·Family mediation
·Online mediation
·Mediation in Surrey in person
·Divorce mediation
Although we are called Surrey Family Mediation, we can help you wherever you are: London, Berkshire, Hampshire, Dorset, Sussex, Kent, Essex, Wiltshire, Hertfordshire, Oxfordshire, or anywhere in the country!
How mediation can help you:
· Provides a safe environment for you and your ex-partner to examine you separation issues.
· Gives you impartial information.
· Informs you of your choices and their pros and cons.
· Gives you general information about the law and the divorce process.
· Keeps emotions in check to reduce hostility during discussions.
· Records what is agreed upon during mediation sessions.
· Signposts you to other professionals if necessary.
However:
· Mediators can’t tell you what to do.
· Mediators can’t make decisions for you.
· Mediation is not reconciliation, therapy or marriage counselling.
· Mediators can’t force couples to come to mediation.
· Mediation is not a miracle cure for all post-marital arguments.
· Mediators can’t advise you on legal, financial, pension or benefit matters.
Daniel Bester holds an honours degree in B.A. (Social Work) from Nelson Mandela University in South Africa.
After three years as a Social Worker, Daniel worked for another two years at the Office of the Family Advocate in Johannesburg (the South African equivalent of CAFCASS). After coming to the UK, Daniel worked as a Social Worker at Surrey County Council.
In 2019, Daniel Bester completed the Family Mediators Association’s Family Mediation Foundation course. Later that year, he set up Surrey Family Mediation. Daniel is now fully accredited with the Family Mediation Council and the College of Mediators.
Daniel also works with other mediators in his and other practices and often co-mediates with other trained mediators.
Daniel specialises in helping parents and children with their living and contact arrangements. He also offers child-inclusive mediation.
Daniel works from a home office between Woking and West Byfleet in Surrey and can also mediate online.
Daniel’s assistants help him run his family mediation practice. Ricky is his Administrative Assistant, and Jack is his Social Media manager.
“Impartial, supportive, empathetic mediation with the best interests of everyone concerned at the centre of the mediation. Thank you Daniel.
Kevin, Addlestone, Surrey
“Daniel was very friendly and welcoming. He made me feel calm and in a safe environment to talk. Thank you Daniel!
Tracey, Byfleet, Surrey
“Daniel has been wonderful, professional, and caring about our case. I highly recommend him and his team.”
Krisztina, Ottershaw, Surrey
“As a child protection officer, I have nothing but praise for this mediator. aniel has a calming effect and sorts out the issues effectively and fairly. e is experienced and not afraid of what is in the best interest of the child or children.”
Gethin, Guildford, Surrey
“Daniel put me at ease and walked me through the process He gave a calming aura and kept this on point A very professional service.”
Mark, Woking, Surrey
“I would like to thank you for being so supportive and caring when I was so vulnerable in my time of need I remember my first phone call with you I was so broken and lost; I probably said the same things so many times Yet, you were so patient and, listened to everything I said with empathy and gave me clear options and instructions At the same time, the professional way you conducted yourself gave me confidence and hope You helped me understand where I stand and the pros and cons of all the different options You also gave me ample time to think things through and make decisions I’m also very grateful that you were very sensitive to my financial issues and found the best way to help me through the process The communication was excellent If I emailed or texted a query, you always got back almost instantly, which really helped me deal with my anxiety, too Thank you very much for your timely help, guidance and care.”
Lydia, Frimley, Surrey
“On my arrival at the location, I was welcomed with respect I was made to feel my voice was heard My concerns were listened to and were noted My mediator supported me for the entire meeting I definitely would recommend this service A HUGE thank you for every help and support that you have provided Stay blessed.”
Mohammed, Woking, Surrey
“I can’t thank you enough, Daniel, that was very mentally and emotionally draining But I think it went really well A very good outcome for both parties and, ultimately, the childr n! Thank y u. “
Dan, Torquay, Devon
“Daniel took the time to put me in touch with someone who could cover the area of mediation that I need d. Very polite and understanding, and nothing was too much trouble. Thank you “
Samuel, Epsom, Surrey
“Many thanks for your email and for all your advice. I can wholeheartedly recommend you to anyone who is looking to you to mediate for them. I have to say that out of the places that I called when enquiring about mediation, you, Daniel, were the most approachable, positive, responsive, supportive and kind that I spoke to. We thank you for everything that you tried to do for us and shall never forget how you tried…people like you are unique in this world.”
Claire, Byfleet, Surrey
“This was the best service I have had. I got my service done successfully. Daniel was the kindest and most peaceful person I have met when I needed it most, and he helped me a lot. I really recommend this company!”
Ana, Woking, Surrey
“Thank you for your speedy turnaround. And for being so kind when we spoke. ”
Anya, Esher, Surrey
“Thank you for listening to me. Talking to you helped me calm my nerves. Thank you for being patient during our conversations. I recommend Dan for his mediation services.”
Jyoti, Camberley, Surrey
“I highly recommend Daniel. As a trainer, he is generous with his time and has a relaxed and professional approach. His style is engaging, informative, and professional.”
Sandy, Solihull, West Midlands
“I just wanted to follow up with you. I’ve seen the children several times now. Things seem to be going brilliant!”
Dan, Torquay, Devon
If you would like to find out how we can help you, please use our Contact Form or call us on 01483 363181
We are located at 9 The Gateway Woking GU21 5SN
