•It really helps to go to your first mediation knowing what is important to you. Try to keep an open mind about what the practical solution might look like but identify the questions that you believe need answering. These will Read more…
Mediation is a sort of a structured conversation, in which a professional helps people to discuss difficult things in a safe space. A qualified mediator will keep the discussion focused on the important issues and will encourage you both to Read more…
One of the most difficult things about divorce and separation is the uncertainty and confusion people feel. Mediation can help you work out what your options are. Sometimes none of the options will be especially good ones from your point Read more…
When you are in a broken relationship your ability to be the best parent you can be is hampered – so separation can be a positive opportunity to have a better relationship with your children. Try not to see your Read more…
Being a separated parent is a daunting challenge. Here are some issues you may wish to consider in exploring what kind of arrangements would suit your new family best. If you think it would be helpful to have a parenting Read more…
During mediation it is really important, though often really hard, to keep communication with your ex civilized. Communication can be hampered when you feel too anxious, angry or upset. Basic exercises may help – take a breath, go for a Read more…
Mediators are prohibited from giving clients legal advice. If you require a legally binding agreement (a Consent Order) to finalise your agreement then it is a good idea to have a solicitor. If you are unclear about what your position Read more…
The Office for National Statistics has published the divorce statistics for 2020 in England and Wales. There is a caveat about the potential but unknown impact of the pandemic on the figures. Highlights are: Over 103, 000 divorces were granted Read more…
A 2021 study into the stress of taking a divorce to court has found the following effects on children: Parental separation can be highly stressful for children and can have a big impact on their lives. For some, this impact Read more…
The government is extending the family mediation voucher scheme. They have also put in another £1.3 million. It is expected that this will extend the scheme until the end of March 2022. This means that mediators can continue to offer Read more…